The girls at Girl Talk Thursday are talking about Valentine’s Day this week. This is how I feel about the holiday in a nutshell:
Before you cast me off as a heartless grinch, let me explain. First of all, I do often participate in sending cards to my friends, observing it more as a friendship day than anything (maybe this childhood habit is harder to break). And of course Hubby and I went all out for it when we first started dating. But now? It’s much more meaningful to me if Hubby gives me a card or chocolate or flowers (*cough* which he’s never done in the 8 years we’ve been together… maybe this public shaming will prompt him to swing into action *cough*) on a day when he doesn’t feel obligated to and when I don’t expect it. I completely, 100% agree that you should tell the people you love that you love them, but don’t expect me to do it when and how Hallmark tells me.